Maybe one of these days I'll tear off the layer of softness that conceals my washboard abs. Perhaps I'll start passing on the dessert at dinner or pina coladas on vacation and reveal them to the world, but until then I still plan to flaunt what I do have. This summer you'll find me sporting a bikini with pride.
See, I've learned that you don't have to have a stomach that is flat as a board, comprised of several packs or maybe even concave to earn the right to feel great in your skin. So you have some cellulite on the back of your thighs or there's a little jiggle in your arms. You can still feel as great as Gisele Bundchen when you strut around in your two-piece this summer. You just need to know the tricks to looking and feeling your best whether you 're on the beach, in the buff, breaking a sweat or just breaking hearts.
See, I've learned that you don't have to have a stomach that is flat as a board, comprised of several packs or maybe even concave to earn the right to feel great in your skin. So you have some cellulite on the back of your thighs or there's a little jiggle in your arms. You can still feel as great as Gisele Bundchen when you strut around in your two-piece this summer. You just need to know the tricks to looking and feeling your best whether you 're on the beach, in the buff, breaking a sweat or just breaking hearts.
Amazingly, someone actually wrote a book to help women with this, proving that far too many of us females are beating ourselves up over our physical imperfections. Now I'm not a fan of books that promote fad diets. (I actually gained weight after reading some literature about Atkins) but the latest work by Women's Health Editor-in-Chief Michele Promaulayko does not fall into this category and therefore, has earned a permanent place on my book shelf. It's called Look Better Naked (Rodale) and it lays out a six-week program that touches upon every aspect of a women's body-nutrition, exercise, skin care, hair, make-up and most importantly, body image. The book offers sensible meals, great exercise routines, beauty tips and also offers great strategies for improving the way you see yourself in the mirror. Plus, the book reads and even feels more like a magazine, with glossy pages, photos and engaging writing so you won't feel like you're reading a boring diet book. I would recommend purchasing it, but to get you started on looking and feeling your best this summer (Hey, we still have over a month left!) and throughout the year, I've compiled some of the best tips for feeling great when you're wearing less or maybe nothing at all.Get Moving: It's impossible to talk about improving your physical appearance and mental well-being without mentioning exercise. It's a no-brainer. Working out burns calories, develops muscle tone, increases circulation and improves your health. When you're healthy you not only look more beautiful on the outside but you also feel better. So enough with the excuses. You owe it to yourself (and the people that have to be around you when you don't feel so great about yourself.) to get your butt off the couch and break a sweat. Try yoga, which studies have shown improves your body image, or dance, which can make you feel liberated, sexy and more confident. The easiest way to find a class in your area is to Google "yoga" or "dance" along with your zip code or your area code if you don't mind traveling outside your neighborhood. Serious about frying fat or shedding that cellulite? Interval training is key. Instead of walking or slowly jogging on the treadmill for 45 minutes, add several sprints and hills to your workout and you'll burn fat up to 50 percent more.
Eat Healthy: "Train yourself to stop thinking, 'I can't have chocolate cake.' Think 'I can have delicious blueberries' instead," says Keri Glassman, Women's Health nutrition advisor and the brainchild behind the Look Better Naked eating plan. She recommends nutrient-dense foods that provide atleast 3 grams of fiber per serving such as black beans, brown rice, and raspberries, and lean proteins that have no more than 5 grams of fat per serving, such as skinless white meat chicken, tofu, pork tenderloin and lean cuts of beef. The fats you consume should be mono- or polyunsaturated fats, limiting your intake of saturated fats and staying away from trans fats completely. Avocados, nuts, olive oil, flax seed and fish are good sources of healthy fats.
Beat Bloat: You'll look like you dropped several pounds if you stay away from salty foods that can inflate your belly like a balloon. Studies also show that calcium-rich foods can also deflate puffiness that arises when you consume salty snacks or when you're period is approaching. So stay away from the pretzels and french fries and reach for a cup of low-fat milk, 8 ounces of low-fat yogurt or a 2.5 ounce serving of low-fat cheese instead.
Drink Wisely: Don't let the beer ads with Lance Armstrong mislead you? A six-pack of Mich Ultras will not bring you closer to six-pack abs. It's quite the opposite. However, a good diet plan accounts for the fact that people need to indulge every now in then. Instead of ordering a margarita, which is loaded with sugar and will cost you over 700 calories for one 10-ounce serving, try the signature Look Better Naked Cocktail the next time you're at happy hour to avoid the complimentary side of guilt. Just tell the bartender to shake up 2 oz. of vodka, 1 oz St-Germain and 0.5 oz of fresh lime juice with ice. You could also add a splash of seltzer and garnish it with fresh mint leaves for some extra pizazz. Still, you'll want to limit yourself to two drinks per week to get the best results.
Camouflage Flaws: Sometimes even diet and exercise can not win out against gravity, genetics and aging. And while there is nothing wrong with having dimples, wrinkles or body imperfections (They're what gives us character right?), if these so called "flaws" are distracting you from feeling beautiful, confident and sexy, it's okay to use some tricks to these trouble zones. Tanned skin tends to mask the appearance of dimples and ripples better than pale complexion, but since their is nothing sexy about skin cancer, it's best to slather on the SPF when you're outside and get your bronze body from a bottle. Newbie fake tanners should know that you should always exfoliate and moisturize, placing extra lotion to areas that tend to be dryer like feet, knees, elbows and hands, before you apply a self-tanner.
My favorite is the Bronze Glow by Roxanne Rizzo, which is often used on the shirt-less studs and string bikini supermodels you see gracing the cover of some of your favorite magazines. The spray bottle gives you a deep, natural-looking tan that dries within ten minutes, won't stain clothing and lasts about a week. You can use it on your face and body and the smell is much more pleasant than most other self-tanners. Tan Towels are also a great option. Your color will be more subtle but they're perfect if you want a less dramatic transformation and easier application. The self-tanner is contained in the individually packaged towelettes, so you just need to wipe them over your skin, toss them and give your skin a few minutes to dry. I like using these especially when traveling. I'm also a fan of Jergens Natural Glow for it's low cost (You can pick it up at any drug store for less than $10) and it's multi-tasking abilities. The cream performs the jobs of a self-tanner, moisturizer and body firming system since it contains collagen and elastin. The smell can be offensive though so you'll need to add a few extra spritzes of perform after you apply it, but it's ideal for people who want to gradually build up a tan over several days or even weeks, rather than instantly transforming from Nicole Kidman to Kim Kardashian.
Strut Your Stuff: You can reform your eating habits, run on the treadmill till your legs buckle and apply every beauty product on the market to your body, but until you start loving it, appreciating it and flaunting it with pride, all your work will have been for nothing. Ask anyone, male or female, what is the sexiest trait a person can have and I bet 9 out of 10 will say confidence. (Not to be confused with cockiness, which is a close relative of confidence but a total turn off!) You can't wait for the day (assuming it ever comes) you finally reach your goal weight, carve out a six-pack or achieve a Jessica Biel-like butt, to start walking with your shoulders back, your held high and a slight strut in your step. Life's too short and you're selling yourself even short if you don't even think you're worthy of loving the skin you're in and letting the rest of the world know it.
So keep feeding your body with healthy foods and exercise, but don't beat it up for not being perfect. Feed your mind with the knowledge to make yourself better, but don't lose it in the process. Keep working hard, but don't forget to take pride in what you have accomplished. Your body is strong, healthy and even if you're not ready to admit it, sexy, flaws and all.
Eat Healthy: "Train yourself to stop thinking, 'I can't have chocolate cake.' Think 'I can have delicious blueberries' instead," says Keri Glassman, Women's Health nutrition advisor and the brainchild behind the Look Better Naked eating plan. She recommends nutrient-dense foods that provide atleast 3 grams of fiber per serving such as black beans, brown rice, and raspberries, and lean proteins that have no more than 5 grams of fat per serving, such as skinless white meat chicken, tofu, pork tenderloin and lean cuts of beef. The fats you consume should be mono- or polyunsaturated fats, limiting your intake of saturated fats and staying away from trans fats completely. Avocados, nuts, olive oil, flax seed and fish are good sources of healthy fats.Beat Bloat: You'll look like you dropped several pounds if you stay away from salty foods that can inflate your belly like a balloon. Studies also show that calcium-rich foods can also deflate puffiness that arises when you consume salty snacks or when you're period is approaching. So stay away from the pretzels and french fries and reach for a cup of low-fat milk, 8 ounces of low-fat yogurt or a 2.5 ounce serving of low-fat cheese instead.
Drink Wisely: Don't let the beer ads with Lance Armstrong mislead you? A six-pack of Mich Ultras will not bring you closer to six-pack abs. It's quite the opposite. However, a good diet plan accounts for the fact that people need to indulge every now in then. Instead of ordering a margarita, which is loaded with sugar and will cost you over 700 calories for one 10-ounce serving, try the signature Look Better Naked Cocktail the next time you're at happy hour to avoid the complimentary side of guilt. Just tell the bartender to shake up 2 oz. of vodka, 1 oz St-Germain and 0.5 oz of fresh lime juice with ice. You could also add a splash of seltzer and garnish it with fresh mint leaves for some extra pizazz. Still, you'll want to limit yourself to two drinks per week to get the best results.Camouflage Flaws: Sometimes even diet and exercise can not win out against gravity, genetics and aging. And while there is nothing wrong with having dimples, wrinkles or body imperfections (They're what gives us character right?), if these so called "flaws" are distracting you from feeling beautiful, confident and sexy, it's okay to use some tricks to these trouble zones. Tanned skin tends to mask the appearance of dimples and ripples better than pale complexion, but since their is nothing sexy about skin cancer, it's best to slather on the SPF when you're outside and get your bronze body from a bottle. Newbie fake tanners should know that you should always exfoliate and moisturize, placing extra lotion to areas that tend to be dryer like feet, knees, elbows and hands, before you apply a self-tanner.
My favorite is the Bronze Glow by Roxanne Rizzo, which is often used on the shirt-less studs and string bikini supermodels you see gracing the cover of some of your favorite magazines. The spray bottle gives you a deep, natural-looking tan that dries within ten minutes, won't stain clothing and lasts about a week. You can use it on your face and body and the smell is much more pleasant than most other self-tanners. Tan Towels are also a great option. Your color will be more subtle but they're perfect if you want a less dramatic transformation and easier application. The self-tanner is contained in the individually packaged towelettes, so you just need to wipe them over your skin, toss them and give your skin a few minutes to dry. I like using these especially when traveling. I'm also a fan of Jergens Natural Glow for it's low cost (You can pick it up at any drug store for less than $10) and it's multi-tasking abilities. The cream performs the jobs of a self-tanner, moisturizer and body firming system since it contains collagen and elastin. The smell can be offensive though so you'll need to add a few extra spritzes of perform after you apply it, but it's ideal for people who want to gradually build up a tan over several days or even weeks, rather than instantly transforming from Nicole Kidman to Kim Kardashian.
Strut Your Stuff: You can reform your eating habits, run on the treadmill till your legs buckle and apply every beauty product on the market to your body, but until you start loving it, appreciating it and flaunting it with pride, all your work will have been for nothing. Ask anyone, male or female, what is the sexiest trait a person can have and I bet 9 out of 10 will say confidence. (Not to be confused with cockiness, which is a close relative of confidence but a total turn off!) You can't wait for the day (assuming it ever comes) you finally reach your goal weight, carve out a six-pack or achieve a Jessica Biel-like butt, to start walking with your shoulders back, your held high and a slight strut in your step. Life's too short and you're selling yourself even short if you don't even think you're worthy of loving the skin you're in and letting the rest of the world know it.
So keep feeding your body with healthy foods and exercise, but don't beat it up for not being perfect. Feed your mind with the knowledge to make yourself better, but don't lose it in the process. Keep working hard, but don't forget to take pride in what you have accomplished. Your body is strong, healthy and even if you're not ready to admit it, sexy, flaws and all.
























